Point of View and Character Development

Well-written, compelling characters keep your readers immersed in your story, unable to put it down. In autobiography, you are the main point of view character.

  • Memoirs,  Point of View and Character Development,  Training, Lessons

    How Not To Be A Wimp

    Using Blind Spots and Limiting Beliefs to Power Your Memoir In my memoir classes, one of my favourite things to do is ask questions of my students to get them thinking more deeply about their stories, their characters and ultimately themselves. One of my students brought up the topic of fear of success the other day.  She mentioned that she had a crippling fear of being successful, ie. “a public figure”. When I asked her what she thought was scary about that, she couldn’t tell me exactly, although, for her, it was tied up with public appearances, maybe interviews or readings of her work.  They terrified her.  It came down…

  • Point of View and Character Development,  Thoughts, Opinions and Philosophical Discussions

    Just Who Do You Think You Are?

    One rainy day many years ago, while I was still in college, I was stomping along the street, resentful and annoyed, on the way to buy some milk since nobody at the house had even considered what happens when you use up the last few drops. Somehow, it always ended up being I who ran these little errands, and I was sick and tired of it. Suddenly, out of the blue, I heard a voice in my head say, “I am me.”   Wait, I thought and stopped walking. What does that even mean — I am me? I know that. Who else could I be? The words held vague overtones of self-awareness, integrity,…

  • Dialogue,  Point of View and Character Development

    The Song of the Spoken Word

    Music surrounds us.  Throughout human history, it has played a big part in our communications.  But only in the past 100 years has it been available to everyone all the time.  Before this, only a few very wealthy patrons could enjoy music in their homes, and only if they knew how to perform, play an instrument or hire someone to play for them.     Every religion has used music to praise a variety of gods, (entertainment being a large part of their attraction for the general populace), and indigenous peoples have all had their own styles of music, often used to communicate over long distances, to appease the spirits and to ward off…

  • Creative Writing,  Organization and Research,  Point of View and Character Development,  Productivity,  Prompts,  Theme, Purpose and Outcome,  Thoughts, Opinions and Philosophical Discussions,  Training, Lessons

    Questions and Answers

    How NOT To Write Your Memoir Most people, when they start to write their memoirs, think they have to stick strictly to the facts, that their story has to be a list of the things they did, in the order that they did them.     This simply isn’t true.  It leads to the belief that they have to write their entire history — an autobiography, which, for most people is messy, disconnected and hard to follow.   This means that they end up with a list of dry, dull facts, like some kind of desiccated checklist that may reflect the events of their lives, but doesn’t say much about…

  • Memoirs,  Organization and Research,  Point of View and Character Development,  Prompts,  Theme, Purpose and Outcome

    The Significance of Memories

    Every life has common themes that repeat themselves over and over.  One of my own most common themes is a love of animals, so when my writers’ group chose Favourite Toys as their prompt this week, it got me thinking…     What was my favourite toy as a child?     Of course, there were many…the roller skates that repeatedly steered me towards every crack in the sidewalk, leading to skinned knees and copious tears; the pogo stick that bounced me straight into a pile of fresh dog poop; and the bicycle my parents bought for me — an  unexpected gift and a total, wonderful surprise.    But the…

  • Creative Writing,  Point of View and Character Development,  Structure and Plotting,  Training, Lessons

    It’s All About The Why’s

    Often, an issue that confounds writers is finding they’ve written themselves into a corner or dead end. They wind up stuck, not knowing what happens next or how to resolve the problem. Invariably, this comes from not paying attention to the Why’s. Why would the character do something like that?  Why can’t he just…whatever?  Where does he go from here? This indecision is usually based on a lack of understanding of the character’s psychology — his motivations, which are based on his flaws and emotional wounds, his deepest fears and his goals, his secret desires and his limiting beliefs. Every action the character takes has a motive, and it can’t be just that the…

  • Creative Writing,  Point of View and Character Development,  Structure and Plotting

    Writing Your Life as The Hero’s Journey

    You want to create your memoirs or autobiography.  You want to write about your life, but it seems like a series of unrelated incidents, random events happening one after another.   However, If you look closely, you can see where certain choices and decisions were the key points where your life diverged from one path to a different one.  Each of these “inciting incidents”, to use a fiction-writer’s terminology, had a profound effect on you in one way or another, but at the time, you didn’t see them or the effect they’d have on your life’s journey. The Hero’s Journey is a formula for writing fiction that was identified and…

  • Point of View and Character Development,  Training, Lessons

    The Great Mistake…What Were Your Life Lessons?

    Life Lessons or Failures? Do you recall your biggest mistake?  Your greatest failure?  How did it impact you and what knowledge did you gain from it?  How did you react?  What would you do differently now? In life, our biggest failures can often lead to our greatest triumphs.  We tell ourselves, if I hadn’t made that mistake or if a particular event hadn’t happened, I wouldn’t be who I am now.  I wouldn’t have what I have or know what I know.  If not for this, I would be a different person entirely. Everyone has these thoughts All of us can look back and say, “if I hadn’t done that…” …